There were unpleasantries committed on both sides, where armed forces swept into villages and killed lots of innocent people. Far more Jews were killed than anyone else.
Secondly, on a matter of scale...none of that comes close to the Holocaust. The Nazis were killing more people in a day than the 1940's actions did in their entirety.
I think Israel -- and the rest of the world -- is awaiting something that is more than "well, don't do anything, and honest, hopefully the other guys will stop shooting rockets and sending car bombs into your civilian areas."
A great first step would be for the UN, etc., to shame the Arab nations into acknowledging Israel's right to exist. And yes, I throw the USA right into that shameful arena (they do so about Taiwan, as well, another highly shameful situation).
Steve
The losses from the 1948 war would seem to be somewhere between 4-6000 jews, and 8-15000 arabs.
Though, the larger civil conflict in the years leading up to the war did have a larger loss in jewish life (a difference around 1000 cassualties). However, looking back through the 40s and 30s, the conflict had pretty much similar results on Palestinians and Jews.
Well, I agree that making the Israeli cities safe is a major concern. However, if we're to look at loss of life, Palestinian losses (ie. since the start of the intifada) wastly beats Israeli losses, and by those losses, we are looking primarily at civilians. We also need to ask the question why the attacks are coming. It's not hard to understand attacks against illegal settlements on the West Bank, and attacks from a blockaded Gaza.
As for the settlements, settler murders on Palestinians are hardly ever prosecuted, Israeli soldiers are obligated to protect Israeli settlers throwing stones on Palestinian school children (there's a detachment of international priests and clerics who monitor the activities of the IDF and the settlers on the West Bank, I've had the pleasure of talking to one of them), Israeli soldiers protect settlers who go out in the middle of the night to cut down Palestinian olive trees, not to mention that settlers also do a fair bit of sniping against civilians outside their settlements.
And that's before we look at the undeniable fact that the Palestinians have been under Israeli occupation since 1967 (and arab occupation since 1948, I'm not praising their arab neighbours if that's what you think).
As for the need for the arab nations to recognize Israel, Egypt's done that, Jordan's done that, Syria pretty much does (but like Lebanon denies you entry if you've been to Israel). Lebanon will take the longest, as they've been invaded by Israel a few times.
What's crucial is to get rid of illegal settlements, they are a thorn in the side of the occupied population, they effectively block any progress what-so-ever. Furthermore, Israel need to acknowledge the need for an independant and sovreign Palestinian state (the PLO has acknowledged Israel, and Hamas will do so given time and a few Israeli concessions).
Israel is in fact the party that has not been able to meet expectations visa vi their Palestinian counterparts, looking at the large picture, the PLO has done that for two decades, and Hamas long since moved away from the idea of pushing the jews into the sea. The Hamas states that they are willing to accept a Palestinian state along the 1967 borders.
Remove the illegal settlements, stop treathing the Palestinians in the West Bank and Gaza as animals, stop the violence on both sides, guarantee a Palastinian state, Hamas must acknowledge Israel publicly (even if they de facto do so by policy changes away from pushing the jews into the sea, leaning towards just a Palestinian state), make Jerusalem an international city, and you're on the road to peace.
Keep on doing what's being done today, keep on being anal and hard up, and the conflict will keep going for a hundered years, or until Israel perishes. I do doubt that Israel can live a hundred years with conflict. I think that's hard to do.
The conclusion is, if Israel wants to survive, she needs to do as she's told. Simple as that.
Edit: The russian orthodox jews are looked upon as second rate citizens largely because they (and now I'm generalizing) don't do anything, they just live on welfare. They're also a source of organized crime. As for ultra orthodox jews, they largely consider all those who are not ultra orthodox jews as rats. No matter if they're jews, christian, muslim, buddhist or just secular.
Edit2: Oh, and Stewe. You know one of the articles that can't be taken into Gaza? Macaroni. You know why? It's high on carbs, it's easy to transport, it's very easy to make as a dinner. Think about that for a moment or two.