YicklePigeon
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I did read your posts, and you'll be glad to read that I'm not the type to just quickly read something, scroll down type something out and hit the "reply" button. Such people should be frowned upon and potentially hung. Moving on.
I'm not talking about his behaviour so much as the perception that you and others have displayed of the lad "being a dick" or "a bit of a dick". Its the definition, in that to me, a dick is someone who: is displaying unwarranted behaviour(s) and/or taking unreasonable physical action(s) towards a third party.
The lad did not display unwarranted behaviour based on what happened to him from the get-go, you have said this yourself in the equivalent words. Nor did he partake in unreasonable physical action(s) toward a third party (or parties). Therefore by the definition I have provided, he wasn't a dick or even a bit of a one.
So why do yourself and others persist in calling the lad a dick or even "a bit of a dick"? It is unwarranted and that is being a dick (by using profanity to describe someone's perceived behaviour who can't possibly defend themselves). This is what I have a problem with.
I understood what you meant by being polite, I went to the conclusion that I foreseen with such bullying tactics being employed. And I agree, how one's actions are interpreted is important...but only by those in the first person *at the time* (rather than third person hindsight, which is what we are all operating from). Its not a bad thing that you suggest, being more polite (I believe "reasonable" would be a more accurate term) in fact it leads me on to the next part of my post.
There is one thing I've not seen you, nomix, put forward - and that is the question "how would you have handled it yickle?" which would be a very fair question. And it deserves an answer - so here it comes.
I too would have done things much as you have described already. I would have been Mr Data for as long as possible, and have done in the past to varying degrees of success (which means I have failed too). I would also have tried to come to a compromise or even have a police officer present whilst I partake in my work - knowing I can always issue a complaint later. That being said, should things have turned sour like they did for this lad, I more than likely would have become far more defiant and if I had "slipped", I would make sure the story got to all the media outlets that I could get the story to. Plus I would have at least made the appearance of being reasonable.
But then that's me. And you have your way of doing things too. Would it have made this lad's case stronger or poorer would be arguing in a vacuum in that we have no information coming in to say one way or the other (and of course, we would therefore be unable to come up with an answer). It would be best to leave that until we do get information one way or the other.
Right, I've had my turn, its yours now
Regards,
Yickle!
I'm not talking about his behaviour so much as the perception that you and others have displayed of the lad "being a dick" or "a bit of a dick". Its the definition, in that to me, a dick is someone who: is displaying unwarranted behaviour(s) and/or taking unreasonable physical action(s) towards a third party.
The lad did not display unwarranted behaviour based on what happened to him from the get-go, you have said this yourself in the equivalent words. Nor did he partake in unreasonable physical action(s) toward a third party (or parties). Therefore by the definition I have provided, he wasn't a dick or even a bit of a one.
So why do yourself and others persist in calling the lad a dick or even "a bit of a dick"? It is unwarranted and that is being a dick (by using profanity to describe someone's perceived behaviour who can't possibly defend themselves). This is what I have a problem with.
I understood what you meant by being polite, I went to the conclusion that I foreseen with such bullying tactics being employed. And I agree, how one's actions are interpreted is important...but only by those in the first person *at the time* (rather than third person hindsight, which is what we are all operating from). Its not a bad thing that you suggest, being more polite (I believe "reasonable" would be a more accurate term) in fact it leads me on to the next part of my post.
There is one thing I've not seen you, nomix, put forward - and that is the question "how would you have handled it yickle?" which would be a very fair question. And it deserves an answer - so here it comes.
I too would have done things much as you have described already. I would have been Mr Data for as long as possible, and have done in the past to varying degrees of success (which means I have failed too). I would also have tried to come to a compromise or even have a police officer present whilst I partake in my work - knowing I can always issue a complaint later. That being said, should things have turned sour like they did for this lad, I more than likely would have become far more defiant and if I had "slipped", I would make sure the story got to all the media outlets that I could get the story to. Plus I would have at least made the appearance of being reasonable.
But then that's me. And you have your way of doing things too. Would it have made this lad's case stronger or poorer would be arguing in a vacuum in that we have no information coming in to say one way or the other (and of course, we would therefore be unable to come up with an answer). It would be best to leave that until we do get information one way or the other.
Right, I've had my turn, its yours now
Regards,
Yickle!