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Phila · April 20th, 2008, 9:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlaRo

Time does indeed heal all wounds.

+1

no matter how much time it takes

MadCow809 · April 20th, 2008, 9:37 PM

At first I thought this guy was just being a prick.

Then I read the part where you said you've cheated on him.... while plastered.

Then it all made sense.

It's over... time to move on, I'm sure he has, and so should you.

Slycer · April 20th, 2008, 9:50 PM

If I were him I'd rethink about ever getting together aswell, after being cheated on. But then again if all that had happened
was a kiss I can say I'd probably give you an another chance. That is if a kiss is as far as you went. You should probably go
all out one more time. Tell him exactly how you feel. I'm sure there's a way to reach him. Send him a letter, make a friend of
his deliver your letter for you and then ask him to atleast read it. If he doesnt budge, move on. Talking about suicide at
the age of 19 is well, probably just looking for attention. As Blaro said, noone is worth commiting suicide. You just don't
want to open your eyes. Go out, mingle. I'm sure you'll meet someone new.

watto · April 20th, 2008, 10:04 PM

OK, so, here's the deal.

1: Don't post this sort of stuff on a forum, speak to one of your friends.
2: You cheated on him!!!
3: He doesn't want anything to do with you at all, in his mind it's over and has been for a long time. You need to get over him and move on.
4: You're not depressed, you're just in love with someone you shouldn't be in love with.

/No sympathy from me.

Cobol74 · April 20th, 2008, 11:11 PM

Sorry, but you have got to get a grip, get help OK but do something. Leave the other party alone, you are being a bit, er selfish. I also think that internet forum is not the place for this, see a close friend or family member for advice.

llpc60 · April 21st, 2008, 2:07 AM

wow whats with all the mean comments... people post random shit here all the time. And shes obviously very upset so give her a break!

Anyways, heres my opinion: It may feel like the end of the world and at least for me, I thought that ANYTHING else would be better than what I was feeling. like if I was homeless or toothless etc (lol) but the truth is... love only fucks you over for a few months/year or 2 then it kind of eases up on the torture. if I was toothless, it would have been alot worse. and If I was homeless, the bridge is probably leaky.

my point is... its going to hurt, yes, but just leave it alone and time will make it better. sure, it may take a few months, but then it will be over. you may never forget that person, and you may even always like them, but it wont hurt everyday and you will accept the fact that shit happens and things will never get better between both of you. and who knows, maybe one day it will. so its like the pain was never there.

so just wait it out, if he wants things to change, you will know about it. but for now just leave him alone, he wont enjoy being bothered if he really doesnt want to talk to you (obviously)

just know that you will be a lot stronger and wiser after this. the experience will probably help you out later in life

and If you want a bf, move here, Ill make you happy.

fbc · April 21st, 2008, 2:16 AM

Speaking from personal experience - you need to seek professional help in moving on and dealing with this situation. You'll gain an understanding about yourself and this situation.

People are human, we make mistakes - that doesn't make us lesser people. Nor does the committing of one bad act make a good person a bad one.

stevanford1 · April 21st, 2008, 4:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ambermorn

yes, it is. and if people think less of me for kissing one person while i had completely drunk myself into a stupor because i was distressed from my 2.5 year relationship falling apart and the other party falling out of love with me, then so be it. any insults i have received over this by other people will not match the guilt and regret i have felt over it. i've been in love with the same man for over 3 years, so i wouldn't call myself a slut by any means; although it seems some people think of me as one, seeing i was woken by a man trying to slip his hand into my jeans earlier this year.

From what you said, it sounded like it was already over when you ''cheated'' on him.

tigger · April 21st, 2008, 4:39 AM

This is really something that you should be talking to a close friend or a shrink about, but since you have the balls to air your personal laundry on the internet I'll bite.

First and foremost, don't kill yourself. For fucks sake drop the notion. You've got a whole life to live and you'll undoubtedly meet plenty more guys. I had an ex *try* to kill herself a few years ago, and all it did was convince me that she was completely nuts and that I wanted absolutely nothing to do with her.

From the sound of things he's completely done with the relationship, and I can tell you that from a guys perspective, hounding him won't do an ounce of good. You've got to keep trying to move on, as hard as it may seem.

Hidden_Hunter · April 21st, 2008, 5:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tigger

This is really something that you should be talking to a close friend or a shrink about, but since you have the balls to air your personal laundry on the internet I'll bite.

hope ambermorn hasn't grown balls, if so she probably should get that checked out first

stevanford1 · April 21st, 2008, 7:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hidden_Hunter

hope ambermorn hasn't grown balls, if so she probably should get that checked out first

vegasrebel29 · April 21st, 2008, 7:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hidden_Hunter

hope ambermorn hasn't grown balls, if so she probably should get that checked out first

I prefer my women like I like my cars: fully equipped.

NooDle · April 21st, 2008, 7:32 AM

since you went through the effort of posting this relatively embarrassing stuff for all of the internets to see, I'll do you the curtousy of replying

Get over him. I know it seems tough now, and all your world will crumble before you, but stop trying to convince the guy. He's done with you, you should move on.

Also, all that "I'm going to kill myself" stuff is not healthy. It's just some dude who doesn't like you anymore, no reason to kill yourself (is there ever a good reason?).

Get some help.

Derek · April 21st, 2008, 9:23 AM

Now now amber, no need to negrep me saying 'No!'.

ambermorn · April 21st, 2008, 11:45 AM

huh? i don't have the ability to negrep, only positive rep, so y'know, sorry you got negrepped but it was someone else. to be honest, you're allowed to say what you wish, i was an idiot last night and i deserve what i get.

thank you to the people who offered constructive critism and advice though, i do appreciate the input. i wish i could sweep this under the carpet but i doubt you lot will let me get away with that lol. no hard feelings on this end though, it's only a car forum after all images/smilies/wink.gif

Whappeh · April 21st, 2008, 12:16 PM

What would Final Gear do:

Punch him in his face and take his car keys.

What should you do?

We don't know, we're from the internet, and suggest you punch him in his face and take his car keys.

Red_Bull · April 21st, 2008, 12:23 PM

Seconded.

smib · April 21st, 2008, 1:29 PM

Thirded.

Adunaphel · April 21st, 2008, 1:30 PM

Fourthed

Scott · April 21st, 2008, 2:45 PM

PM sent, I think I can help...

April 20th, 2008, 9:37 PM	#22
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April 20th, 2008, 11:11 PM	#25
Cobol74 Joined: Mar 21st, 2006 Last Online: 1:21 AM Location: Southampton Posts: 9,613 Car: Vauxhall Zafira 1.9 TDI Slush box. Rep Power: 208	Sorry, but you have got to get a grip, get help OK but do something. Leave the other party alone, you are being a bit, er selfish. I also think that internet forum is not the place for this, see a close friend or family member for advice. __________________ Lotus 7 Registration Mark = KAR120C : Engine Number = 461034 TZ Ross Brawn genius or what?

April 21st, 2008, 2:16 AM	#27
fbc Moderator Joined: Jan 8th, 2005 Last Online: November 11th, 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 34 Posts: 11,774 Car: 2006 MY07 Astra SRi Turbo Rep Power: 130	Speaking from personal experience - you need to seek professional help in moving on and dealing with this situation. You'll gain an understanding about yourself and this situation. People are human, we make mistakes - that doesn't make us lesser people. Nor does the committing of one bad act make a good person a bad one. __________________ www.sniffpetrol.com

April 21st, 2008, 9:23 AM	#34
Derek Is Über Joined: Dec 7th, 2004 Last Online: 7:35 AM Location: Pays-Bas et le Belgique, c'est le très de nom! Age: 21 Posts: 1,488 Rep Power: 198	Now now amber, no need to negrep me saying 'No!'. __________________ "You're the biggest asshole I know. And that says a lot." - Ice "Don't insult my intelligence." - Ice "I'm perfectly ok with the power. It's not what you drive, it's how you drive it." - Ice

April 21st, 2008, 11:45 AM	#35
ambermorn Not A Dude Joined: Jul 2nd, 2007 Last Online: March 14th, 2010 Location: Sydney, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 466 Car: Holden XC Barina 05 Rep Power: 30	huh? i don't have the ability to negrep, only positive rep, so y'know, sorry you got negrepped but it was someone else. to be honest, you're allowed to say what you wish, i was an idiot last night and i deserve what i get. thank you to the people who offered constructive critism and advice though, i do appreciate the input. i wish i could sweep this under the carpet but i doubt you lot will let me get away with that lol. no hard feelings on this end though, it's only a car forum after all __________________ And on that bombshell...

April 20th, 2008, 9:50 PM	#23
Slycer Joined: Jul 24th, 2006 Last Online: March 6th, 2010 Location: Unknown Age: 23 Posts: 368 Car: Unknown Rep Power: 20	If I were him I'd rethink about ever getting together aswell, after being cheated on. But then again if all that had happened was a kiss I can say I'd probably give you an another chance. That is if a kiss is as far as you went. You should probably go all out one more time. Tell him exactly how you feel. I'm sure there's a way to reach him. Send him a letter, make a friend of his deliver your letter for you and then ask him to atleast read it. If he doesnt budge, move on. Talking about suicide at the age of 19 is well, probably just looking for attention. As Blaro said, noone is worth commiting suicide. You just don't want to open your eyes. Go out, mingle. I'm sure you'll meet someone new.

April 20th, 2008, 10:04 PM	#24
watto Unloved and lacking a title Joined: Jun 13th, 2005 Last Online: December 8th, 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 24 Posts: 5,707 Car: MY06 Impreza 2.0R Hatch Rep Power: 74	OK, so, here's the deal. 1: Don't post this sort of stuff on a forum, speak to one of your friends. 2: You cheated on him!!! 3: He doesn't want anything to do with you at all, in his mind it's over and has been for a long time. You need to get over him and move on. 4: You're not depressed, you're just in love with someone you shouldn't be in love with. /No sympathy from me.

April 21st, 2008, 2:07 AM	#26
llpc60 Banned Joined: Jun 1st, 2006 Last Online: September 2nd, 2008 Location: LAND OF THE FREE (AHAHAHA) Posts: 1,018 Car: 93-NA . Mariner Blue Rep Power: 0	wow whats with all the mean comments... people post random shit here all the time. And shes obviously very upset so give her a break! Anyways, heres my opinion: It may feel like the end of the world and at least for me, I thought that ANYTHING else would be better than what I was feeling. like if I was homeless or toothless etc (lol) but the truth is... love only fucks you over for a few months/year or 2 then it kind of eases up on the torture. if I was toothless, it would have been alot worse. and If I was homeless, the bridge is probably leaky. my point is... its going to hurt, yes, but just leave it alone and time will make it better. sure, it may take a few months, but then it will be over. you may never forget that person, and you may even always like them, but it wont hurt everyday and you will accept the fact that shit happens and things will never get better between both of you. and who knows, maybe one day it will. so its like the pain was never there. so just wait it out, if he wants things to change, you will know about it. but for now just leave him alone, he wont enjoy being bothered if he really doesnt want to talk to you (obviously) just know that you will be a lot stronger and wiser after this. the experience will probably help you out later in life and If you want a bf, move here, Ill make you happy.

April 21st, 2008, 4:39 AM	#29
tigger Joined: Dec 11th, 2006 Last Online: 4:34 AM Location: Suburbia Hell Posts: 3,577 Car: 1984 BMW 325e Rep Power: 122	This is really something that you should be talking to a close friend or a shrink about, but since you have the balls to air your personal laundry on the internet I'll bite. First and foremost, don't kill yourself. For fucks sake drop the notion. You've got a whole life to live and you'll undoubtedly meet plenty more guys. I had an ex try to kill herself a few years ago, and all it did was convince me that she was completely nuts and that I wanted absolutely nothing to do with her. From the sound of things he's completely done with the relationship, and I can tell you that from a guys perspective, hounding him won't do an ounce of good. You've got to keep trying to move on, as hard as it may seem.

April 21st, 2008, 7:32 AM	#33
NooDle Ik ben niet alleen lekker met kaas! Joined: Jul 20th, 2005 Last Online: Yesterday Location: Belgium Age: 28 Posts: 6,164 Car: Opel Astra 2.2 DTI Rep Power: 127	since you went through the effort of posting this relatively embarrassing stuff for all of the internets to see, I'll do you the curtousy of replying Get over him. I know it seems tough now, and all your world will crumble before you, but stop trying to convince the guy. He's done with you, you should move on. Also, all that "I'm going to kill myself" stuff is not healthy. It's just some dude who doesn't like you anymore, no reason to kill yourself (is there ever a good reason?). Get some help.

April 21st, 2008, 12:16 PM	#36
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April 21st, 2008, 12:23 PM	#37
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April 21st, 2008, 1:29 PM	#38
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April 21st, 2008, 1:30 PM	#39
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