Not happy. I wanna barf.
That's bad for you, maybe even for both of you. But I am going to swin against the flow here and state that I get his reasoning. Seeing your partner only two or three times a year can be hard emotionally - I think it would slowly kill me. I can even understand that he only came to this conclusion in the lonelieness of you being gone after the visit.
Still, he should have had the balls to tell it to you to your face, even if only by video chat.
Moral of the story:
I suspect the recent crash (a couple of days ago, wasn't it?) made him re-evaluate. When you have a traumatic experience and you're in a relationship, it's only natural to want your partner there to (if nothing else) help you deal with the aftermath. If they can't be there, weelll...
That's part of why long distance relationships don't work out in the main and in the long run. This relationship could probably still be salvaged, but one of the parties involved would have to emigrate to the other's country.
Still, he should have callled or videochatted you.
Massively sorry to hear that Shirahime, really hope there is some sort of happy ending to your situation.
FTFY
I've never seen true, long term happiness come from a relationship. People are not wired that way, the fact the brain lies to us about that makes it all the more shit. The variables and chances of meeting somebody compatible enough are just too slim, statistics dictate a high rate of failure. Not saying that true love can't happen, just that it probably won't.
But then you end up in the situation where you love somebody and want to be with them and can't, at most you see them a few weeks a year when you both want to see each other almost everyday, the person you desperately want to be there is never actually there. A nasty situation which sucks for both parties, how long can you last if you feel that way?
Relationships have an important physical aspect, and I'm not talking about sex, I mean just being together face to face is important.
It's all a horrible, complicated mess, a massive balancing act. I hate the very idea of love, it genuinely pisses me off with its promises of happiness and fails to deliver so often and people end up getting hurt.
Part of me really wish I had somebody special, but another is really glad I don't, when you hear about things like this it sounds like it just isn't worth it in the end.
And once again you use someone else's pain as an excuse to start talking about your own problems. Way to go, Captain. I wouldn't worry about love and happiness. People as self-absorbed as you don't tend to attract people very often.
It's Winter, or very nearly. Nobody dares go anywhere in Winter in the UK, in case a centimetre of snow falls and the country closes down as a result.You guys need to work out a UK meet and have some fun. Do some cheering up in person
as well as if someone trips and falls on your driveway it is usually followed up by an injury compensation claim.It's Winter, or very nearly. Nobody dares go anywhere in Winter in the UK, in case a centimetre of snow falls and the country closes down as a result.
But I love the snow. A FG snowball-fight-snowman-building-whatever would be great! Of course, it's now not going to snow at allIt's Winter, or very nearly. Nobody dares go anywhere in Winter in the UK, in case a centimetre of snow falls and the country closes down as a result.
But I love the snow. A FG snowball-fight-snowman-building-whatever would be great! Of course, it's now not going to snow at all
But I love the snow. A FG snowball-fight-snowman-building-whatever would be great! Of course, it's now not going to snow at all
and hot chocolate afterward!
I'd love to go to a place where it snows, I think I'd like to experience that kind of magical Christmas you only ever see in the movies.
Then you're in the wrong country (and there's probably another month or so until ski resorts start to open, apart from those that are open year round).But I love the snow. A FG snowball-fight-snowman-building-whatever would be great! Of course, it's now not going to snow at all
Magical Christmases only happen in the movies. In the real world it's fighting, farting and fiscal meltdown.
Yes. We tried this in the late 60s early 70s it did not work then and it will not work now. This is a delibrate distraction by the government away from all their stupidity.Do we really need to do this anymore?
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Yes. We tried this in the late 60s early 70s it did not work then and it will not work now. This is a delibrate distraction by the government away from all their stupidity.
Yes. We tried this in the late 60s early 70s it did not work then and it will not work now. This is a delibrate distraction by the government away from all their stupidity.