I hate when someone makes a point it'd be interesting to respond to after I've said I've pulled out of a discussion. Replying makes me seem like a hypocrite.
I've always felt that "pulling out" on internet forums is a bit of a show. You either ignore what people say if you feel it's irrelevant, or post. Anyway, if you feel that your point is worth proving, it shouldn't be of any concern what you might seem to others. Or so I thought.
If people aren't interested in why they might be wrong, I'm not interested in explaining why they are, or interested in listening to them rail against me. I'm not interested in changing people's minds, only in having a discussion.
What's the point of having a discussion if you're
a) not ready to change your point of view
b) not interested in explaining it to other people?
I'm listening to what you're saying, but your arguments contradict my experience so far.
If they're just going to pretend that my arguments are meaningless because of who I am or am not, or even because they don't like the fact that I disagree with what they believe, I'm not going to bother.
Not bothering is not the way things are done in life. Sure, there is a case of "someone's wrong on the internets", but let's not make world black and white.
As for being "arrogant," to change my mind all it would take is to show me that the dominant nations don't use their militaries to bully other nations, don't supply those nations' enemies with arms, or even don't supply both sides in wars.
They do. They do. They do. Never denied that. Do you know where do the orders come from? Which people exactly are
responsible?
Show me that the best way to help people is to go abroad and kill hundreds or thousands of them at the taxpayer's expense in the process.
It isn't. Never said that.
Show me that it's okay to reward this kind of behavior and teach kids to sacrifice their lives for baubles and chintzy adulations of politicians and minor celebrities. And show me that violence doesn't encourage people to seek retribution.
This kind of behaviour isn't rewarded. They're not giving the medals to Blair.
What is rewarded is the ultimate devotion. Getting your best mate out of a burning vehicle under heavy fire. Being under constant risk of being captured, tortured and killed daily, so that their mates won't be. Knowing that they will do the same for you any day.
You have to realise that life isn't all honey and pies, and some decisions can't just be ignored. What do you suggest? All the troops decline to carry out the orders? You're blaming the wrong people, you have to understand.
As for the military not being voluntary, sure, once they join they follow orders or they're put in prison or, depending on the circumstances, shot. But joining is still optional most places, including Britain if I'm not mistaken.
What do you suggest, not to join for a year or two? :?
And while enlistees get conned with words like "honor" and "patriotism" and "freedom" and "duty" to join the military, the first thing they get taught is how to obey orders and handle a weapon so that they can be sent to war to kill and die as a politician sees fit. And that's not exactly a secret.
It's not my intention to insult you, but you sound like you don't quite grasp the idea of how the world works. That's the purpose of the army.
I don't have contempt for soldiers. I have pity for them.
Oh, don't have pity for
them. The reason why I asked you about serving with the military is that your views are a bit one-sided. War makes men men. There are dark sides to it, and there are bright sides to it. From some perspectives, one gains a lot. I'm not sure if this means anything to you.
But just because they've been conned into doing what they've done doesn't make them any less responsible for their actions. And it certainly shouldn't be rewarded or praised. You reward behavior you want to continue and not behavior you don't.
You mix two things into one.
There are soldiers, who take heroic actions and risk their lives. Just think about it. It means that they can be
dead any second. Dead forever. And some of them value lives of others more than their own. And they shall be awarded for that, for they are heroes.
Then there are politicians who manipulate opinions and abuse their power to make these faithful and bound-by-oath men fight where they shouldn't be fighting.
Please draw a line between those two things.