Right, here goes.
First of all the fat burning issue. Jogging, swimming, rowing machine....you won't burn fat all that well just by lifting weights. You need to get your heart rate up in order to achieve that. Running for example 3 times/week and depending on your stamina, around 8-10km each time. Swimming is a great way to burn calories and get in shape, but otispunkmeyer is our resident amphibian, so he can tell you a lot more about that. I am more of a runner myself and I can give some pointers about that if necessary.
As for the gym training...
Well, there have been loads of stuff in this thread before, so you should read through if you haven't already. In
this post I wrote about training your abdominal area. But in essence you want to mix it up when training abs: don't do just the ab crunch or only the roman chair. For example one set of crunches, then roman chair, then maybe one set of static exercise and again crunches. You get the idea. At least 20-30 reps for each set. A lot of people also overlook their obliques, which is really stupid since they are very important muscles.
Rotary Toso is perhaps the best thing there is for training your obliques. Also dumbbell side bends are great for this
(Like so)
As for arms....bicep curls with dumbbells and curl bar
(this)
Forearms - curl bar but woth a pronated grip (palms facing down instead of up)
Triceps - bench press, tricep extensions in every possible form (overhead, pull down etc.)
Shoulders - Also bench press, shoulder press, I prefer dumbells instead of a bar.
If you are going to go for example 4 times/week, I'd suggest dividing your training somehow, this is how I would roughly do it:
Day 1: Chest + shoulders - bench press x5, incline bench press with dumbbells x3, shoulder press with dumbbells x3, chest with cable crossover, high and bent x4 (2+2) (high = stand straight, trains more outside of pecks, bent = upper body bent forward, trains more the inside of pecks)
Day 2: Arms in total - bicep curl with curl bar x4, tricep extensions x4, lateral bicep curl with cable crossover
(like this)
Day 3: Upper back - Lateral pull down x3, chin ups x4, one arm dumbbell row x3 OR barbell row, whichever you like best. I prefer the bar, shoulder press with bar, standing up (Note: DO NOT lower the bar behind your head, lower it to your chest and from there up).
Day4: Legs + lower back - squat x4, deadlift x4, calf machine x4, hamstring curls x4, leg press x3, and a favorite of mine for lower back: stand on a bench, feet together. Take the bar, wbout shoulder wide grip. Now lower the bar straight down to your toes, don't bend your knees. And back up. Don't put much weight, about your own weight maybe. This'll stretch your hamstrings, calves, back really well and also train your back.
Each day before you leave do abs, at least 4 sets. You shouldn't train more than 2-3 days straight and then rest. A good pace could be as follows:
Monday: Day 1
Tuesday: 10km run
Wednesday: Day 2
Thursday: rest
Friday: 10km run
Saturday: Day 3
Sunday: Day 4 + 10km run
Monday: rest
Tuesday: Day 1
And so on...
Umm...what else....you may want to buy some protein supplements depending on how good your diet is and how quickly you want results. With the type of program I just wrote it would be good to buy some protein powder and then add to that some carbohydrates. Drink immediately after every training session. And I don't know how much you have trained before, but 3-4 sets in each exercise is pretty much the perfect amount and in each set 8-15 reps, depending on the exercise. You just have to find out the correct wights for each one. The last couple of reps should always be to the breaking point, meaning the if you do, say 10 reps in the last set, the 10th should be so difficult and hard that you can't do it anymore. If you can still go on, you're not training hard enough.
If you have a friend who likes to train or who would like to start, get them to go also. It's always more fun to train with a friend than it is alsone. Also helps your motivation.
Hmm....maybe that's enough for now, I'll gladly tell more and go into more detail, just ask and you shall receive. Note that I am
NOT a professional personal trainer nor do I have any degree on conditioning. I just train quite a lot myself and like to educate myself about these things,. I say this because you should always try to learn more and from many different sources and I may have some inaccuracies here and there.
Also I don't have everything listed in that mock-up program, because I simply don't know all the correct terms in English, so feel free to add more to that.
YouTube has a lot of great stuff and again I encourage to check it out. For example expertvillage is on of the best, because it is made by professionals for beginners. They have everything from weight training, to toning to aerobic exercises.
Hope this helps at least somewhat.