I wasn't talking about separating the subject from the background via DOF. Yes, people don't look like they do irl if taken with a telephoto lens either, that's why there are certain lenses that work best for portraits. 70-100mm on full frame or 50-70 on crop. That is, if you keep the person fully in the frame. If you keep the same distance from the object and use a wider angle, their features won't distort, as they will cover a smaller area of the frame.
Here, this is obvious. Wide angle lens, but since the subject's face doesn't cover the entire frame, there is no distortion. In certain cases, if you want to point out a certain feature or charicaturise your subject, it's also not wrong, like
here or
here respectively. But most of the time it just looks wrong.
Don't you think?