aaaaaah, the uncomfortable dinner party. You at least have one other to talk to when the rest contemplate the property market and discuss the pros and cons of various OB/GYNs. You're 22, it's allowed to not have the family/baby thing underway.
Be cool. If you relax, the others probably will too.
Yep, I did. It's been 5 years since the 5 of us have been together. I know that sounds gay as hell but this was literally the lunch group, movie group, video game group, and whatever other group since 7th grade. I have to say it was only slightly uncomfortable, mostly because we realized that nothing interesting ever happened with Ryan ever. Now that he has a baby on the way... nope still nothin'
The funniest part was when his wife was asking us "So what funny story can you tell me about Ryan? Tell me some secrets!". There was literally an awkward pause for like 2 minutes where we were trying to think of anything even remotely amusing that ever happened with him. The only thing we could think of was 8th grade when we were playing starcraft and he tried to help me since I was under attack by AI. He sent his multiple fleet of battle cruisers right over the enemy base going "I'll save you man". But saying that would have been extremely dorky and lame.
lol I know how you feel man...My boyfriend is 3 years older than me and all our friendship group is getting engaged, getting married and having babies. I was at a wedding this year where he was the groomsman and I was the only one on my table not married. Sheesh.
I'm sorry dude. Personally though I don't see myself getting into marriage until I'm 30. I know that while I can be mature now and make certain mature decisions, things like a new house, marriage, and a baby are fucking way down the line. I cannot even conceive of
thinking about it until 30. It just seems too early.
Don't worry about yourself, I'm sure he'll pop the question at some point, and you'll both be far more ready at that point than any of your friends are right now (not that I know your friends, but I'm just generalizing and putting in an effort to be assuaging).
Meh, I'm in the same boat...wondering why all my friends rushed to settle down already with the whole graduating/marriage/house/real job/kids thing.
'k, they won't have as big of a debt load from school as me, but video games > diapers. That is a fact.
Thank you. I think it's just being hasty. I'm sure a few years down the road Ryan and his wife Mary will start having problems. I mean they barely knew each other for like a year before they went on about marriage.
Truer words have never been spoken. Can someone cover me on the repping.
Hey! I said it first!