MattD1zzl3
2 Slow 2 Noisy
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I was listening to SModcast the other day and kevin smith was talking about something that really resonated with me, that women seem to be baffled by.
As we all know women almost always desire neat and clean men, dont smell bad, brush your teeth, get a haircut, wear matching colors, facial hair is rarely desirable, at least put forward a tangible effort to look neat and nice. In my relationship this extends into sexual attraction, i'm apparently physically more attractive when wearing nice clothing. (Which baffles me, i'm sort of in the frame of mind "But i'm the same person", but it makes sense.)
On the other hand, men like me, (and silent bob) seem to find women the most attractive first thing in the morning, when there is no makeup (if women wear it), hair isnt "done", hell, dont even bother to brush your teeth i just wanna get bu-isy . Dont get me wrong, i've been knocked on my ass by my girlfriend entering the room in a little black dress looking nice as much as the next guy, but for pure, primal sexual attractiveness, the frumpy, "First thing in the morning" look really resonates with me. A pair of comfortable pyjamas turns me on as much or more than a tight-fitting cocktail dress.
So i think this poses several interesting questions. Am i crazy? Do you guys feel this way? Are all women as confused by this as my girl is, and does it make all that effort seem counterproductive (It shouldnt, for one thing it still looks very nice, for the other we know that looking nice is as much for you as it is for us, if not more so). Thank you for reading, and discuss.
As we all know women almost always desire neat and clean men, dont smell bad, brush your teeth, get a haircut, wear matching colors, facial hair is rarely desirable, at least put forward a tangible effort to look neat and nice. In my relationship this extends into sexual attraction, i'm apparently physically more attractive when wearing nice clothing. (Which baffles me, i'm sort of in the frame of mind "But i'm the same person", but it makes sense.)
On the other hand, men like me, (and silent bob) seem to find women the most attractive first thing in the morning, when there is no makeup (if women wear it), hair isnt "done", hell, dont even bother to brush your teeth i just wanna get bu-isy . Dont get me wrong, i've been knocked on my ass by my girlfriend entering the room in a little black dress looking nice as much as the next guy, but for pure, primal sexual attractiveness, the frumpy, "First thing in the morning" look really resonates with me. A pair of comfortable pyjamas turns me on as much or more than a tight-fitting cocktail dress.
So i think this poses several interesting questions. Am i crazy? Do you guys feel this way? Are all women as confused by this as my girl is, and does it make all that effort seem counterproductive (It shouldnt, for one thing it still looks very nice, for the other we know that looking nice is as much for you as it is for us, if not more so). Thank you for reading, and discuss.
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