Ok, so you want something with a bit more presence than a typical estate (and I can say estate if I want!)
What about the Volvo XC70? It's comfortable, luxurious, AWD and a bit more clearance than a regular car. It's still not an SUV so it will be safer in a crash - less chance of a rollover, the most deadly kind of crash. It will get better mileage, and it actually has more usable interior space (both cabin and cargo) than many of the SUVs listed so far. How can you loose? It also has that classy Swedish design that will always look good.
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What about the Volvo XC70? It's comfortable, luxurious, AWD and a bit more clearance than a regular car. It's still not an SUV so it will be safer in a crash - less chance of a rollover, the most deadly kind of crash. It will get better mileage, and it actually has more usable interior space (both cabin and cargo) than many of the SUVs listed so far. How can you loose? It also has that classy Swedish design that will always look good.
http://img79.imageshack.**/img79/1102/5es4gi2.jpg