Shawn
Lexus? Oh shi-
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Been years since I've created a thread like this asking a broad, somewhat philosophical question, but I've been thinking about this the last few days.
No, I am not asking if you have friends, or if you are a loner. I'm asking to see which of you guys actually prefers to spend some or a lot of their time by themselves, regardless of other factors.
To me, solitude is different from loneliness. Loneliness, much of the time, is exerted on people by factors out of their control... solitude, on the other hand, is being alone by choice.
We're all lonely at one point or another, and if you choose to be alone all the time you likely suffer from some psychological issues. But, does anyone spend any significant portion of their time alone, just because they prefer it that way?
You can just give a yes/no answer or elaborate if you care to, it's a pretty straightforward question.
I definitely spend a lot of time alone, more than is normal for most people. I've never had a big circle of friends but I do have certain people who are my very good friends, yet... I could probably see them 3 times as often as I do now.
So I guess I do enjoy solitude more than what is considered 'normal'... I'm curious to see if this is something very rare or just something that most people choose not to talk about because, let's face it, it's not very cool to say you like to be by yourself a lot of the time.
I realize most of you guys probably have no interest in discussing a downer topic like this, or any topic dealing with emotion for that matter. But I just thought I'd go ahead and ask... there's a poll up top anyway.
No, I am not asking if you have friends, or if you are a loner. I'm asking to see which of you guys actually prefers to spend some or a lot of their time by themselves, regardless of other factors.
To me, solitude is different from loneliness. Loneliness, much of the time, is exerted on people by factors out of their control... solitude, on the other hand, is being alone by choice.
We're all lonely at one point or another, and if you choose to be alone all the time you likely suffer from some psychological issues. But, does anyone spend any significant portion of their time alone, just because they prefer it that way?
You can just give a yes/no answer or elaborate if you care to, it's a pretty straightforward question.
I definitely spend a lot of time alone, more than is normal for most people. I've never had a big circle of friends but I do have certain people who are my very good friends, yet... I could probably see them 3 times as often as I do now.
So I guess I do enjoy solitude more than what is considered 'normal'... I'm curious to see if this is something very rare or just something that most people choose not to talk about because, let's face it, it's not very cool to say you like to be by yourself a lot of the time.
I realize most of you guys probably have no interest in discussing a downer topic like this, or any topic dealing with emotion for that matter. But I just thought I'd go ahead and ask... there's a poll up top anyway.
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