BigDaveDogg
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^What he said about the friends. Why would you want to be with a girl that would do that to her last bf? She'll probably end up doing it to you...
Just don't whine and bitch if the BF get's pissed.
And isen't 16 a little young? Maybe it's just me but IMO there's a pretty big leap from 19 to 16...
I think it all depends on the guy, the girl and your relationship (or lack thereof) to both of them
Going after another guy's girl is not always wrong, but it is a tricky situation and if you don't handle it just right you will be the one looking the fool.
Sorry to jump in late on this one (I'm at the hospital and have not read the whole thread, but I figured I would chime in anyway).
I used to think it was never ok to steal another guy's girl, but experience has taught me otherwise. It is not a simple matter of right and wrong, I think it all depends on the guy, the girl and your relationship (or lack thereof) to both of them. If the guy is your friend then you should back off, end of story. If he's your enemy, you should be cautious that you are going after his girl for the right reasons and not just to spite him; she should not get caught in the crossfire. Other than that, it depends on the girl, the guy and how he treats her. If he is indifferent or takes her for granted then I say go for it.
If she shoots you down, don't press the issue; she may be happy with the guy she's with and you don't want to destroy that. You will have made your intentions known and that is enough. If she in amiable to the idea of dating you then she will open the door for you.
Going after another guy's girl is not always wrong, but it is a tricky situation and if you don't handle it just right you will be the one looking the fool.
I was wondering, is it wrong of me to date a girl that already has a boyfriend ? I say no, its her responsibility!
What do you think ? Am I being an asshole ?
Sorry to jump in late on this one (I'm at the hospital and have not read the whole thread, but I figured I would chime in anyway).
I used to think it was never ok to steal another guy's girl, but experience has taught me otherwise. It is not a simple matter of right and wrong, I think it all depends on the guy, the girl and your relationship (or lack thereof) to both of them. If the guy is your friend then you should back off, end of story. If he's your enemy, you should be cautious that you are going after his girl for the right reasons and not just to spite him; she should not get caught in the crossfire. Other than that, it depends on the girl, the guy and how he treats her. If he is indifferent or takes her for granted then I say go for it.
If she shoots you down, don't press the issue; she may be happy with the guy she's with and you don't want to destroy that. You will have made your intentions known and that is enough. If she in amiable to the idea of dating you then she will open the door for you.
Going after another guy's girl is not always wrong, but it is a tricky situation and if you don't handle it just right you will be the one looking the fool.
An asshole? No, since she is unmarried, and that is a line that should not be crossed, in my opinion of course. But is it to me wrong? Yes. Also, if she is the one who wants to start dating you before she terminates her relations with the other person, more than likely she will do the same to you. You were warned.
Oh and also, "don't put the pussy on a pedestal". So what if she is hot? Personality, to me, is the greatest attribute to a relationship. It is what I value most, because looks won't get better with age, but a loving woman that stands by your side and you are totally in sync with each is other is the biggest turn on.
What I am saying is as you get older, try to find women who got more going for them than just looks. I can understand that you are 19 and you want to get your dick wet....who didn't at that age?
Maybe I am just old fashioned...
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Too bad I have to spread some more positive rep around like Johnny Friggin' Appleseed or something, because that was very well said.Hey your morals are your problem - you asked the question, don't complain if you don't like the answer. So she made the first move - doesn't change anything. You know she's involved with someone else - that's what matters.
The fact you've asked this question tells me that you know it's wrong, but you're seeking some sort of justification for your actions.
Maybe not but I'm sure he'll catch up to you if you try to run ! :lol:oh and btw a footballer is a guy who plays soccer, not american football so therefore he is not a big muscular guy and i dont have to worry about him beating me up !
Those guys aren't exactly out of shape either (i.e. they're not baseball players).oh and btw a footballer is a guy who plays soccer, not american football so therefore he is not a big muscular guy and i dont have to worry about him beating me up !
Sorry to jump in late on this one (I'm at the hospital and have not read the whole thread, but I figured I would chime in anyway).
I used to think it was never ok to steal another guy's girl, but experience has taught me otherwise. It is not a simple matter of right and wrong, I think it all depends on the guy, the girl and your relationship (or lack thereof) to both of them. If the guy is your friend then you should back off, end of story. If he's your enemy, you should be cautious that you are going after his girl for the right reasons and not just to spite him; she should not get caught in the crossfire. Other than that, it depends on the girl, the guy and how he treats her. If he is indifferent or takes her for granted then I say go for it.
If she shoots you down, don't press the issue; she may be happy with the guy she's with and you don't want to destroy that. You will have made your intentions known and that is enough. If she in amiable to the idea of dating you then she will open the door for you.
Going after another guy's girl is not always wrong, but it is a tricky situation and if you don't handle it just right you will be the one looking the fool.
Those guys aren't exactly out of shape either (i.e. they're not baseball players).