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Brother Michael

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Wow.....my mother is the most bitterass bitch in the known existence.

As I mentioned earlier, the mother of my big brother/ex-wife of my father has a brain tumour and she will have surgery later this week. Now my mother and my father aren't exactly in good terms eventhough it has been ten years since their divorce was finalised. To be specific my father doesn't have any issues with my mom, never talks ill of her and actually praises her for her efforst when me and my younger siblings were kids.

Now my mother on the other hand does talk badly of my father, hates his guts and doesn't give him credit for anything. Today we got to talking about if we should visit Anitta, the one with the tumour. I told my mother that dad tried to call my older brother to ask how everything is going, if we should go visit etc. I mean she is his ex-wife afterall and he is his son. A sane, normal person would think this is good, shows you care. Compassionate.

What's my mother's reaction ?

"What the fuck does he want now ? It's none of his business !! God damnit why is he calling them, what the fuck. Just leave her alone, okay ?"

Yeah. Okay. So my old man tries to call his son to ask how he is holding up, if there is anything he can do. And my mother deems this as devil's work. That he should just fuck off.

What. The fuck.

I was shocked. I have heard some nasty stuff from her mouth before but this...this was something else. How can anyone be THAT bitter and spiteful ? Now if it were her mother....and I would not call or even thinkb about visiting....the consequences would be dire. Dire as in I would get killed. My mother would stop all communication with me in an instant. But when my father actually tries to care, it's wrong ? And he is the one who is an ignorant fool ?!?

Wow.....just.....wow.
 

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WTH LP, I clicked your link and had to force quit my browser because something wanted to "check for malware". What site is that???

No clue because I wasn't getting that on google chrome. I got the link from google news. I have edited to the chicago sun times article, and I'm sure that shouldn't cause any problems.
 

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Wow.....my mother is the most bitterass bitch in the known existence.

As I mentioned earlier, the mother of my big brother/ex-wife of my father has a brain tumour and she will have surgery later this week. Now my mother and my father aren't exactly in good terms eventhough it has been ten years since their divorce was finalised. To be specific my father doesn't have any issues with my mom, never talks ill of her and actually praises her for her efforst when me and my younger siblings were kids.

Now my mother on the other hand does talk badly of my father, hates his guts and doesn't give him credit for anything. Today we got to talking about if we should visit Anitta, the one with the tumour. I told my mother that dad tried to call my older brother to ask how everything is going, if we should go visit etc. I mean she is his ex-wife afterall and he is his son. A sane, normal person would think this is good, shows you care. Compassionate.

What's my mother's reaction ?

"What the fuck does he want now ? It's none of his business !! God damnit why is he calling them, what the fuck. Just leave her alone, okay ?"

Yeah. Okay. So my old man tries to call his son to ask how he is holding up, if there is anything he can do. And my mother deems this as devil's work. That he should just fuck off.

What. The fuck.

I was shocked. I have heard some nasty stuff from her mouth before but this...this was something else. How can anyone be THAT bitter and spiteful ? Now if it were her mother....and I would not call or even thinkb about visiting....the consequences would be dire. Dire as in I would get killed. My mother would stop all communication with me in an instant. But when my father actually tries to care, it's wrong ? And he is the one who is an ignorant fool ?!?

Wow.....just.....wow.

:hug:

Does she think that he wronged her somehow and feels that he should suffer for it? I could be wrong but that's just how I'm interpreting her actions. I have a few relatives like your mom and I just avoid at all costs, even if I'm doing some kind of familial faux pas.
 

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I have a few relatives like your mom and I just avoid at all costs, even if I'm doing some kind of familial faux pas.

Personally i try to avoid all family members, except my mum.. I can't hide from her.. :|
 

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My office chair is now officially unusable.

The cushion snapped off the base. If I sat on it now, I'd get a metal bar up my ass.

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Wow.....my mother is the most bitterass bitch in the known existence.

As I mentioned earlier, the mother of my big brother/ex-wife of my father has a brain tumour and she will have surgery later this week. Now my mother and my father aren't exactly in good terms eventhough it has been ten years since their divorce was finalised. To be specific my father doesn't have any issues with my mom, never talks ill of her and actually praises her for her efforst when me and my younger siblings were kids.

Now my mother on the other hand does talk badly of my father, hates his guts and doesn't give him credit for anything. Today we got to talking about if we should visit Anitta, the one with the tumour. I told my mother that dad tried to call my older brother to ask how everything is going, if we should go visit etc. I mean she is his ex-wife afterall and he is his son. A sane, normal person would think this is good, shows you care. Compassionate.

What's my mother's reaction ?

"What the fuck does he want now ? It's none of his business !! God damnit why is he calling them, what the fuck. Just leave her alone, okay ?"

Yeah. Okay. So my old man tries to call his son to ask how he is holding up, if there is anything he can do. And my mother deems this as devil's work. That he should just fuck off.

What. The fuck.

I was shocked. I have heard some nasty stuff from her mouth before but this...this was something else. How can anyone be THAT bitter and spiteful ? Now if it were her mother....and I would not call or even thinkb about visiting....the consequences would be dire. Dire as in I would get killed. My mother would stop all communication with me in an instant. But when my father actually tries to care, it's wrong ? And he is the one who is an ignorant fool ?!?

Wow.....just.....wow.

As others have mentioned, I'm just going to reaffirm. Family is bittersweet. You have those people that make you feel good, and then those people that are soap opera stars. And when you think you know someone very well, they turn into soap opera stars. It's part and parcel. It's really effed up for her to have said those things but I can't say more than that because I don't know the back story. I'll just say your best bet is to ignore and do your job and take care of Anitta and your father.
 
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