Red_Bull
Gives you wings?
Its probably not that he didnt notice your hair, its that he most likely just didn't fancy making a comment. We (as in blokes in general I guess) observe and think about a lot of things but dont always comment.
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Dogbert
Helsinki Smash Rod
And I've noticed that pisses off women (at least women that I've interacted with) to no end. Also, I've found that I always have to have some ulterior motive for anything I do or say or think.
BlaRo
Little Nudger
Even if you were melbournian's boyfriend, you're just trying to get in her pants, you misogynistic pig!
So...
Total attempts: 1
Times rejected: 1
Compare that too my record:
Total attempts: ?
Times rejected: < ?
You'll loose most of the time, but the wins are sooo sweet!!
NooDle
Ik ben niet alleen lekker met kaas!
I guess you guys need to learn that no matter what you do, the number of total attempts will ALWAYS > times accepted.
Besides, it's not because she rejects you the first time, that she will do so again. Women are weird like that. Sometimes you have to ask them twice or even thrice, because they wanna know if you REALLY wanna go out with them for them...
Yeah I don't get it either, it's just that I've had a positive experience with the "never say die" attitude, and it WERKS!
Hercules286
Well-Known Member
I wear cheap shoes and no earrings, and I hate talking about me I'd rather talk about you.
Usually, you don't talk at all, you just make cute faces at whatever I say.
melbournian
Well-Known Member
:lol: he did actually notice...after about 20 minutes, and one of his friends going 'hey, the pink is cool!' I don't mind though, it's better than him consciously trying to make a comment about my clothes/hair which ends up being hilariously an inadvertently unflattering.
Hidden_Hunter
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:lol: he did actually notice...after about 20 minutes, and one of his friends going 'hey, the pink is cool!' I don't mind though, it's better than him consciously trying to make a comment about my clothes/hair which ends up being hilariously an inadvertently unflattering.
nearly as good as the time when my mum spent like 2 hours cooking something and my dad comes home and goes "that looks pretty simple to cook" D:
melbournian
Well-Known Member
^ Ouch. I'm guessing Mr Hidden Hunter didn't earn any brownie points for that. Luckily my dad is pretty clued up about what happens in the kitchen...in fact of my parents he's the one more likely to spend lots of time experimenting with new food (my mum is an excellent super fast cook).
chaos386
.sa = bad driver!
Just had some coffee made in a French press/press pot for the first time. Mmmm, tasty!
So...
Total attempts: 1
Times rejected: 1
Spent 3 hours rolling around in bed before I could sleep last night... =)
People who say "you'll find someone else": Hey, go to hell please. Humans arnt fucking disposable.
Btw, it ended with the classic "I dont think we can be more than friends".
It will get easier when you realize that "they" are really all the same.
It's just the packaging that's varies slightly .
Red_Bull
Gives you wings?
Waste of time isn't it? Generally I find that if you dont fall asleep within the first 15 minutes then you're most likely not going to. In that case warm milk and a book usually helps. Differs from person to person though, I guess.
toma_alimosh
Also known as "Myke Hunt"
Talking too much about yourself can be as much a mistake as asking too many questions about her. It's not a job interview. Then again, not talking about each other at all defeats the purpose of a date altogether.
What I found to be the best conversation topic and never failed me in any social interraction with girls is talking shit about people around you. If you see the skank with the dress up to her butt, whose buttocks show up when she sits down, point it out. But make sure it's in a funny way.
Ex: "I swear to god, the clothes industry is running out of cotton. In two years, her dresses are going to start turning into tops. The poor thing, for all we know 2015 will be butt-naked for her."
or "Are bimbos running out of money for tops? Because I've seen too many of those one-face t-shirts with only a string on the back ... guess that's the price of having 150 shirts in your closet."
Of course. Women like you to be predictable, it makes their job that much easier, just like we men like dumb girls, they respond to anything. But secretly women want men who are not predictable and men want women with big brains.
ambermorn
Active Member
Ouch, that sucks to hear mate. I know it feels awful now but continue focusing on positives in your life and more positives will follow. Look after yourself!
I'm in the same position as you at the moment. Just was rejected by a guy I really like, though at least he gave me a chance by dating me. The reason? "We're both not ready for a relationship, and I don't think you're the one for me". I dated this guy 5 years ago and he rejected me back then too. No more chances for him!!!
Crazyjeeper
NickGyver
I don't secretly want a smart woman, I actively want one. Dates with idiots are beyond boring.
fbc
Retired Moderator
<checks Ice's posts>
I do recall him once posting something along the lines of "... foreplay isn't meant to take longer than the main event, and I've had no complaints..." - don't know if it was that, or something in IRC that led to the title.
dawes
Not A Dude
Thanks for the advice, I'm gonna try that tonight. I've got a lot of that rolling around in bed lately too.
Topgearfanatic
is a Queen
Coldstone Creamery is heaven on Earth, I love it!