Ahh shit, I got a message over MSN from a girl I used to date (like...twice) asking when we were gonna catch up again next. Two problems, I'm kinda seeing someone else, which presents some difficulties, and the second, and by far the most important reason is that I'm not all that crash hot about her. I dont want to hurt her feelings by outright rejecting her and I ignored the MSN message and she signed out after about 10 minutes of inaction which leads me to suspect I might've hurt her anyway. It's been almost fucking half a year since we last saw each other anyway! I realise the most obvious course of action here is to probably let her know the state of play and why it wont work between us, but I just can't bring myself to tell her. I'm weak. I dont like hurting people and would prefer to merely bury the issue as I have done for the past half year. I thought/hoped she'd moved on. I could tell her I'm too busy but I used that line last year (it was true then and it's still largely true now). I'm not really seeking advice I just feel I need to vent to an anonymous audience. I just dont want to be the bad guy...