Wow.....my mother is the most bitterass bitch in the known existence.
As I mentioned earlier, the mother of my big brother/ex-wife of my father has a brain tumour and she will have surgery later this week. Now my mother and my father aren't exactly in good terms eventhough it has been ten years since their divorce was finalised. To be specific my father doesn't have any issues with my mom, never talks ill of her and actually praises her for her efforst when me and my younger siblings were kids.
Now my mother on the other hand does talk badly of my father, hates his guts and doesn't give him credit for anything. Today we got to talking about if we should visit Anitta, the one with the tumour. I told my mother that dad tried to call my older brother to ask how everything is going, if we should go visit etc. I mean she is his ex-wife afterall and he is his son. A sane, normal person would think this is good, shows you care. Compassionate.
What's my mother's reaction ?
"What the fuck does he want now ? It's none of his business !! God damnit why is he calling them, what the fuck. Just leave her alone, okay ?"
Yeah. Okay. So my old man tries to call his son to ask how he is holding up, if there is anything he can do. And my mother deems this as devil's work. That he should just fuck off.
What. The fuck.
I was shocked. I have heard some nasty stuff from her mouth before but this...this was something else. How can anyone be THAT bitter and spiteful ? Now if it were her mother....and I would not call or even thinkb about visiting....the consequences would be dire. Dire as in I would get killed. My mother would stop all communication with me in an instant. But when my father actually tries to care, it's wrong ? And he is the one who is an ignorant fool ?!?
Wow.....just.....wow.