I don't know if I can agree to this sentiment. I think the death penalty, in a society with a more-or-less working court system is a morally bad law, but it is still something that is administered according to certain rules the society as represented by their lawmakers has agreed upon.Perhaps. But I've always believed that the death penalty is even worse than a mob beating someone to a bloody pulp and killing them for being naughty, though.
Well, so far FG has indeed proven that we are a tolerant bunch, at least in theory.Time to open this can of worms here I reckon. [...]
Once in a while, you read a story that breaks your heart. It's good to realise, from time to time, how real people are affected by the ideas and debate. I put it to anyone bashing gays to listen to that story and not feel great shame.About 15 years ago, my ex father in laws partner died after a long illness, (not AIDS) and while Russel was not entitled to any of his life insurance or was legally allowed to keep any of Rob's property, he WAS entitled to 100% of the hospital and hospice bills.
All while Robs family who had dis-owned him years before swooped in and legally took everything not nailed down, including his car, all the furniture in the house (while the funeral was going on), his half of the bank account (they took all but $5 actually) and life insurance.
And didn't have to be liable for any of the bills that Russel ended up with.
There was a will, but in the State of Ohio at the time, since they were a gay couple, the family was able to just walk away with everything. With the hospital bills and such and with Russel taking so much time off work to care for him, he didn't have the money or will to hire a lawyer.
Bastards didn't even send flowers to the funeral.
T-shirts?
I somehow think it's misleading to call them "gay marriages", and I think most of the problems arise from the lexical question.
We idealize the term "marriage" as a somewhat sacred union between a man and a woman. Actually, it's only the social aknowledgement of the bond tying two people together (and has been in the past, or is today in several countries, a simple social pact to assure alliances between families, or a way to get a VISA into a foreign society). The sacred part is only from a religious point of view. But, as we know, religion and State should be two different matters. If religions want to keep what they call marriage as a union only between male and female, then there is no problem. No gay people will ever be allowed to get married in a church in front of a priest. No problem. But as for stipulating a social contract of mutual assistance and care, and the formation of a -family- (at least two people who share most of their life and properties, with mutual rights and duties), I can't see any civil obstacle in having two people of the same gender signing such a contract. If religious people don't want it to be called "marriage", let's call it something else. What is the problem? Religious bonds and civil pacts are two different things.
Hence why I don't see why they are so desperate for the right to do so in the UK.The thing is we already have legal same-sex civil unions in the UK but the debate here is as to whether the various churches should be allowing same sex couples to marry in the traditional sense.
It was my knowledge that the civil partnership and a non-religious (civil) marriage had the same standing under UK law. A marriage under religion is another matter, then it is up to whatever religious body you want to get married within. Although (I may be wrong) I also thought a religious marriage has the same standing in law.You don't? It's because they're being told by the law that they are different. The law tells them that their union is not valued at the same level as that of a man and a woman. And you know what? I'm willing to bet all the beer in my fridge against all the beer in your fridge that most people affected by the law will feel like the value of their union is lower than that of a marriage.
The thing is we already have legal same-sex civil unions in the UK but the debate here is as to whether the various churches should be allowing same sex couples to marry in the traditional sense.
It was my knowledge that the civil partnership and a non-religious (civil) marriage had the same standing under UK law. A marriage under religion is another matter, then it is up to whatever religious body you want to get married within. Although (I may be wrong) I also thought a religious marriage has the same standing in law.
If that is so then the only problem is the perception, people (usually the highly religious and the elderly, I find) are going to see same sex marriage as "wrong" and "unworthy". That's entirely their opinion, they can think what they like.
Personally I'm not religious, so I wouldn't have a religious based marriage in a church with a priest and organist and top hats etc. For the majority of people it is merely a sign of commitment and a few legal standings which are identical across the board as far as I know.