Handz, every single new rider who got a 600+cc and subsequently wadded it thought they could handle the bike. Every. Single. One. It isn't about "respect", it is about ability and experience.
I hate to be the one who bites on the bait, but there is a reason so many experienced riders recommend smaller displacement bikes to new riders - and that doesn't mean it has to be an EX250. Right now there are a ton of new small to mid-displacement bikes on the market targeted at new riders. The simple fact is that most 600cc bikes have a very narrow window between "Weeee this is fun!" and "Oh shit, I'm crashing!" It takes experience to ride within this narrow margin of error, and that is something
every new rider lacks, regardless of their respect for the bike. Smaller displacement bikes are simply more forgiving. They are not designed with racing regulations in mind the way many 600cc bikes (including the R6) are, they are lighter, easier to handle, have a more forgiving throttle response and power delivery, and more forgiving brakes.
The other reason to get a smaller, less powerful bike, is to highlight your own ability as a rider. Anyone with half a potato for a brain can get on a powerful bike and keep up by twisting the throttle in the straights. It takes real skill to keep up with those guys on a less powerful machine because you have to be better in the corners. A smaller bike teaches you that technique which you can then bring to a more powerful machine once you have developed your skills.
I've personally had to ride a CBR 600rr several hours home after a new rider dumped it after hitting a rough section of road and going into panic-mode. Had he been on a softer, more forgiving machine that would have become an object-lesson we would have talked about at the next stop, done some coaching and finished the ride. Instead, he panicked, gave an unforgiving bike too much input and chucked it down an embankment into a fence. He also talked about respecting the bike and his maturity, but he just didn't have the experience to manage that type of machine.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I am saying it because I genuinely don't want you to get hurt or lose your investment in the bike.
The best things you can do from here:
- Find a group of experienced, mature, and responsible riders and see if they will welcome a new guy. Many experienced riders balk at riding with people unfamiliar to them because they don't know if you are a liability on the road. It may take time to get to know them socially before you ride together.
- Be open to pointers and instructions from others, but be careful! Not all advice is good advice!
- Squids: Don't be one, learn how to spot them, avoid them.
- Ride in ideal conditions for a while. Riding in suboptimal conditions will come with experience, for now work on your technique without having to worry about rain or gravel.
- Have fun! Riding is supposed to be fun! Never ride because you feel you have to, only because you want to.