Jay
the fool on the hill
I didn't want to muddle up one thread with my thoughts, so here is the continuation to keep his story on topic.
Yes, because I will never get those years back, I spend a lot of time day dreaming of when I was seventeen with no burdens on my shoulders and a sense of immortality.
Now I am married with a mortgage, content to stay at home and reminisce about the old times; I sometimes get very depressed and start thinking about wanting to be ten years old again. Remember when you were ten? Old enough to have some responsibility, but young enough to still be innocent about the scary and overwhelming voyage that is life.
"Youth is wasted on the young" is the quote that sums it up best. They truly do not know how good they have, and to enjoy the vibrancy of life to it's fullest everyday.
So, what I am saying is, don't let your best years slip by because of work, or a job, or a marriage you feel obligated to fulfill. Your fate is not pre-determined.
I mentioned in another thread my brother rode around the circumference of America on a bicycle, just to say that he could do it. Fly out to Europe and stay in hostels for a few years. Travel to Alaska and live in cabin you yourself built. Go work for the Peace Corps for a while. Join the armed forces if you have the warrior in you. Go live in Nassau and sell diamonds. Visit WWI battlefields while reading "All Quiet On The Western Front". Ride your motorcycle around the world. Twice. Take a train ride to Siberia in the wintertime.
Whatever the case, find out who you are.
Fall in love. Find someone that you are absolutely gaga for. A love so wild and irrational, it makes you want to hug random people just because of the intense, unbridled emotions you get from love. Make sure every day you have with that person counts, like it your last day on Earth and both of you know it.
NEVER EVER take love for granted, it can easily slip as fast as it came. The next time you and the person you are love with are making love, gaze into each others eye's throughout; get lost in all that wild lust and carnage, look deeper into the soul of the person you love , and know that while that youth is beautiful and fleeting,
Love is forever.
I remember all the road trips I took when I was your age. A lot of adventures, too numerous for one thread. Like this one time me and two friends were bored and decided to drive to Saint Louis from Madison, Wisconsin...
<Jay continues rambling>
...and after we got kicked out of the golf course for streaking, we decided to head home.
Road trips lessen as the you get older, become family vacations, become business trips. Treasure them, remember of them fondly my friend, because one day you will not be able to do that because of adult responsibilities.
Damn Jay, that was the saddest thing I read all day.
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Yes, because I will never get those years back, I spend a lot of time day dreaming of when I was seventeen with no burdens on my shoulders and a sense of immortality.
Now I am married with a mortgage, content to stay at home and reminisce about the old times; I sometimes get very depressed and start thinking about wanting to be ten years old again. Remember when you were ten? Old enough to have some responsibility, but young enough to still be innocent about the scary and overwhelming voyage that is life.
"Youth is wasted on the young" is the quote that sums it up best. They truly do not know how good they have, and to enjoy the vibrancy of life to it's fullest everyday.
So, what I am saying is, don't let your best years slip by because of work, or a job, or a marriage you feel obligated to fulfill. Your fate is not pre-determined.
I mentioned in another thread my brother rode around the circumference of America on a bicycle, just to say that he could do it. Fly out to Europe and stay in hostels for a few years. Travel to Alaska and live in cabin you yourself built. Go work for the Peace Corps for a while. Join the armed forces if you have the warrior in you. Go live in Nassau and sell diamonds. Visit WWI battlefields while reading "All Quiet On The Western Front". Ride your motorcycle around the world. Twice. Take a train ride to Siberia in the wintertime.
Whatever the case, find out who you are.
Fall in love. Find someone that you are absolutely gaga for. A love so wild and irrational, it makes you want to hug random people just because of the intense, unbridled emotions you get from love. Make sure every day you have with that person counts, like it your last day on Earth and both of you know it.
NEVER EVER take love for granted, it can easily slip as fast as it came. The next time you and the person you are love with are making love, gaze into each others eye's throughout; get lost in all that wild lust and carnage, look deeper into the soul of the person you love , and know that while that youth is beautiful and fleeting,
Love is forever.