I'd say without an external microphone capability, you're out of luck. It really depends how far the camera is from the car itself, but as MXM has said, you're always going to get some wind noise drowning out the engine noise, no matter what you try.
In fact, if you look at professional rigs, they are pretty much just the camera itself too, with nothing else at all - even the recording device (such as tape) is mounted elsewhere and connected remotely to the camera...
As for the options you suggested, they won't remove the wind noise only, instead they'll probably only muffle all the sounds and make the engine noise even harder to hear. In that case you'd be better off removing the audio altogether and putting music on top...
Just out of interest - got any photos of your rig?
I'd be interested in seeing how you built it...
Are you sure your camera doesn't support an external mic? Most modern ones do, and the external mics themselves aren't that pricey. Especially when you consider you don't need a top end one as you're not recording a symphony orchestra...
Edit: Sorry, just realised, that post isn't actually too helpful...
Edit 2:
jensked said:
Did you place the camera outside your car or inside? And are you planning a 2005 version of "c'?tait un rendez-vous"?
edit: i think i misunderstood your problem... that's because I don't know what you mean by "suction car mount"
I think he's using something like this:
However, it'd be slightly different as it's bound to be externally mounted seeing as wind noise is a problem. And I doubt this sucker (pun intended) is strong enough to withstand movement on the outside of the vehicle as it as (though it may just be...)
What I want to know is whether he's got it pointed forward or back...