Never used ebay, paypal was nice for the time I used it and then somehow my account got hax0rzed and I was charged $150 for some game subscription and donation that I didn't even apply to.
Over here fees are 8% on the first 50?, 5% on anything between 50? and 500?, 2% on any euros over 500?. With those rates your final value fee would be just over $20. Your local eBay simply is ripping you off.