Jay
the fool on the hill
It sounds like people feel the need to have children just to be normal.
Then I am envious of them. Sometimes.
A woman I know got a tattoo on her forearm, in the same area I have mine:
https://pic.armedcats.net/j/ja/jayhawk/2011/08/07/012.JPG
I told here she was hardcore, like me. Then I thought about that a bit more. Does being "hardcore" entail birdwatching, taking photos of pretty flowers, listening to classical music and jazz, and having a cat with nicknames like "sir fuzzy buns?"