The wife, baby and step daughter just completed a 1980 mile round trip, two week vacation to my parents house in South Florida in my wife's Ford Focus. Last year we did it in my Focus ST and it was horrible (without the baby) thanks to too firm Recaro's, the trip back was even worse thanks to my step daughters grandmother dropping her off with more crap than any 9 year old girl ever needs. This year was complicated by the fact we had the baby, the trip down wasn't so bad (couldn't lean the front passenger seat back as much as I'd like but I could still nap in it). Even though she was told not to the step-grandmother still overloaded us with crap, so the trip back up was miserable. Plus we just found out the wife is pregnant...again.
So, in the next six months or so I am looking at trading in my 02 Miata in on something bigger. I was thinking about a Ford Flex. I have no interest in a mini-van or SUV. I know two people who have Ecoboost V-6 Flexes, one of whom has a 2010 that he is trading in for a 2016, and a co-worker who has a 2013. Neither have had any problems. So, overall is the Flex a decent enough vehicle? I'd rather have a manual but at that size point I don't think that is realistically an option. Also, it will likely be used, so is the transmission a weak point?